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What to Do First When Someone Dies

Losing a loved one can be overwhelming. Here's what to do first and in the days and weeks that follow.

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The Complete Guide to Planning a Funeral

Planning a funeral can be overwhelming. Our Guide to Planning a Funeral can help. Our experts offer step-by-step strategies to finalize every detail.

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How to Choose Music for a Funeral or Memorial Service

Music has the power to uplift and inspire, offering a beautiful way to celebrate the lives of our loved ones. Carefully selected songs can spark joyous memories and bring solace to those in mourning.

The Complete Guide to Cremation

Discover the many aspects of cremation. From the necessary process to the associated costs and various options for ashes, we'll guide you through it all.

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The Complete Guide to Memorial Services

Our comprehensive Guide to Memorial Services will give you some ideas to help you create a personalized and meaningful memorial service that will honor your loved one.

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What to Wear to a Funeral

What you should wear to a funeral can be confusing. Our six guidelines will help you show respect without drawing attention. From religious services to out-of-town burials, we’ve got you covered.

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Choosing Sympathy Flowers Based On Colors

Choosing sympathy flowers is meaningful. Each color has a unique message. White lilies mean purity, while purple irises represent regret and sympathy. Express your condolences by personalizing an arrangement.

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How to Write an Obituary

Crafting an obituary can be daunting. Let go of preconceived notions and honor your loved one's legacy with a deeply personal and reflective piece.

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How to Write a Eulogy

Have you been tasked with writing a eulogy for a loved one who has passed away? A eulogy simply tells the story of the person who has died and your relationship with them. In this article, we provide some tips

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What to Write in a Sympathy Note

Expressing sympathy can be difficult for many of us, but it's important to reach out to loved ones during their time of grief. A simple note or card can make a big difference and help them in their healing process.

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What to Keep, What to Let Go of When a Loved One Dies

Practical strategies for anyone facing the difficult task of deciding what to keep and what to let go of after a loved one dies.

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What to Do if You Can’t Attend a Funeral

Funerals offer closure, but there are valid reasons to not attend. If you aren't able to be there, here are 10 ways to show your support.

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Should Children Attend Funerals?

How can you determine if your child is emotionally prepared to attend a funeral service? If depends on their age and maturity level. Here are some steps to take to prepare them.

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When Grief Meets Back-to-School

The back-to-school season can be exciting, but for grieving parents, it may feel overwhelming. The pressure to maintain appearances while coping with loss is tough. Here are some tips to help you through.

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The Healing Power of Journaling: Finding Solace and Strength in Writing

The journey of loss can be challenging, but it's an opportunity for healing and growth. Journaling can be a powerful ally in this process, allowing you to express your feelings and reflect on cherished memories.

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Things You Can Do When Someone You Know Suffers a Loss

Knowing what to say or do when someone you know suffers a loss can be diffifult. Here are 10 suggestions.

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Things to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving

What to say - and probably not say - to someone who's grieving.

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Why You Should Acknowledge Someone’s Loss

It's important to acknowledge someone's loss. Mention the deceased by name, reach out proactively, listen without giving advice, show understanding by sharing personal experiences, and offer support through gestures of kindness.

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Helping a Sister Through Grief – A Sister’s Guide

If your sister has recently experienced a devastating loss, there are ways you can help her on her journey toward acceptance and healing.

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Navigating Grief Online

Here are some tips on how to announce a death on social media, and how to memorialize a Facebook page.

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Navigating Sensitive Topics With Text: Tips For Doing It Right

Texting can be a powerful tool for offering support and kindness during times of grief, providing immediate comfort. Here are some tips to do it right.

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A Valentine’s Day Survival Guide

If you're grieving a loss, single, or simply overwhelmed by expectations, here's a Valentine's Day Survival Guide just for you.

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Grief and Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day can bring up many feelings for those who have lost a mom or a maternal figure. There’s no “right way” to deal with this day—what matters is finding comfort in a way that feels right to you. Check

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The Hidden Grief of Father’s Day

Father’s Day can be a complex time for those grieving the loss of a father figure, stepfather, or grandfather. While society often celebrates traditional father-child relationships, the grief associated with non-traditional bonds is frequently overlooked.

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Remembering Dad on Father’s Day

For those whose fathers are no longer with them, Father’s Day can stir up mixed emotions, including fond memories as well as grief that he is no longer here.

When Thanksgiving & Grief Collide

Thanksgiving can be particularly challenging when grieving a loved one. The holiday arrives with expectations of gratitude and family togetherness, which doesn't feel anything like your reality.

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6 Ideas to Help You Cope with Grief at Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving can be particularly challenging when grieving a loved one. The conflicting emotions can be overwhelming. It's ok to feel both joy and sadness at the same time. Here are ways to help you cope.

Giving Yourself Permission to Change Holiday Traditions

You don’t have to celebrate the holidays the way you always have; it’s OK to change things up. Whether it’s skipping the office party, keeping a cherished recipe, or creating new traditions, you have permission to do what feels right

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Holiday Gift Ideas for Someone Who’s Grieving

If you have a friend or family member who's grieving this holiday, a gift can say, "I remember them too." From personalized ornaments to self-care, a gift acknowledges both the joy of the season and the weight of what’s missing.

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The First Christmas After a Loss

The first holiday season without a loved one can be incredibly challenging, filled with a mix of emotions and memories. As we navigate these “firsts,” it’s essential to remember that traditions can evolve. Consider creating new rituals that honor your

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Grief & The Holidays

You are an individual. And your grief process is your own. How to set boundaries and navigate grief during the holidays.

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A Resolution That Lasts

What if this year, you made a different kind of resolution? Most people know they should talk about final wishes, but haven't. Why January is the perfect time, and how to start the conversation without being weird.

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A Guide for Coping with Grief at the Holidays

Grief isn’t a place where you unpack and settle down permanently. Instead, it’s a process that continually evolves and shifts with time. There is no “right” way to navigate it. Find what works best for you during the holiday season.